The other day i was watching a movie...and there was this particular dailogue that goes..."Marriage is the most wekest of all relations......bcause there is divorce to seperate married couples....but there is no such thing as to seperate brothers,sisters etc.,"
I dont know if there was aplause among the audience for the dialogue........but somehow i couldnt agree with it.
I always has the highest respect for the "Marriage"....may be many indian middle class girls(LADIES)r under the same impression..(Sorry i dont mean to hurt or point the people who dont come under this category......its simply that iam talikng abt the circle i know of).
Marriage brings two people from totaly differnt environments toghter under one roof for the lifetime.Isnt it great?Its the commitment two people have for one another.
Every relation is great.wheather its between 2 sibblings or a couple.Blood relations cannot be choosen....u cannot choose ur sibling....but u accept the person.u grow up with that person.if u cannot get along with each other...there is always a way u can stay diversified.But marriage means living toghter u cannot stay away from each other if ur ways dont match.Hence the concept of marriage comes with the divorce.Just bcause there is a concept of the divorce that doesnt make the concept of marriage weak .
We both watched the movie together. But I looked at the surface of the dialogue. But you explained very detailed why its wrong & I am so happy to know detailed view of the dialogue and I agree with your view. But when the girls have indepdence they don't believe in your Indian Midle class girl's thought. As any community making progress and changing their life styles there will be change in thinking. Best example is your thoughts differ from your previous generations.
ReplyDeleteGood Luck,
Hanu